This is one way to assure that your husband will feel his spanking to be much more severe than normal...
of course, be in charge but aim as you please

without actually doing severe damage.
However, you might decide this is too much enjoyment, even though it does the deed quicker...

so you might just sit in the spanking chair, and stroke him, while telling him what a naughty boy he is..

or command that he stroke himself, mocking him, while letting him know how severe his spanking will be..

now, he can be made to feel even more submissive, almost like a cow being milked, if you have him bending over a chair on all fours


because enjoying his cum is your PREROGATIVE, even though he has to stand their with his hands by his side, with no movement

most of these gifs come from the following website http://galvygalvy.tumblr.com/archive
milk away aggressively

and
enjoy the bliss

For spanking photos, see almost any other of my posts...