Erections: The reality of many F/M spanking relationships

We use spanking as discipline sometimes, but many times for sexual simulation and role play.
I like being able to be submissive, as this is definitely not my normal situation.

When we first started spankings, I would become erect immediately when informed  that I would be spanked.
 

Erections,, even when occurring for a discipline spanking, did not stop the spanking.


Now, many years later, this does not always occur, but usually still does...
When being spanked, the spankings are real, and the erection now fades away....
Cindy sometimes teases me about this before beginning the spanking, stating that it is a shame that your erection  is going to disappear.




 I assure her that it will rapidly return with a little affection.. and it always does...
so enjoy the fact that spanking your husband can lead to fabulous sex...

 and hope his erection remains throughout the spnaking

or can easily be revived

photo friday

A few pictures for your entertainment...
When you spank him, hold on tight to make certain he neither bounces around too much, nor tries to get away...
Always be willing to surprise him
Maybe invite a few friends over to give you a hand spanking him
You might like to make your own caption for this one
 He was caught wearing (or made to put on) pantyhose and panties, and quite permissibly a pink bra (dangling on his arm), and then spanked in front of her two girlfriends (or his sisters... or......
Maybe a better idea for cornertime is to have to stand their naked, looking at the paddle that will soon blister your bottom 
but then again, you may be waiting your turn to be spanked and readily dreading what is to come
but like many of us, you may love (love/hate/ love reaction) being spanked... and are waiting with a smile on your face

Playing "DARE" with your partner

A little collection of photos, and maybe I can try to connect the dots....

"The dare was if I show you my breasts, then I get to give you a real spanking! Even if you pretend not to look, you are certainly going over my knee
You say the thought of being spanked is "NOT YOUR THING", then why is your thing so damn hard!
Time to pay the piper: Bend over and we shall get started
my, my! What shrinkage occurs after just a dozen spanks
well before we continue
bottoms up
Red

thought for the day



so a little slap and watch it bounce
 then lead him over your lap
 the erection remains while the spanking begins swiftly
 and oh my, a red bottom, and it still remains
now for some other fun
or possibly

protecting the valuables

Sometimes you see pictures of very considerate women.....
 wanting to spank every available
 portion of your bottom
 without damaging your vitals
or maybe just holding on for the fun it entices
however, sometimes the photos show the exact opposite



a slap to deter enjoyment
 a little disdain for the erection, because the man is to be spanked
 or worse, asking him where he should be spanked

but staying with the consensual aspect, we only delve ever so slightly with the first method, but usually tuck the goods away between Cindy's thighs for any OTK spanking.

Milked before being Spanked

This is one way to assure that your husband will feel his spanking to be much more severe than normal...


without actually doing severe  damage.
However, you might decide this is too much enjoyment, even though it does the deed quicker...
That lady again !
so you might just sit in the spanking chair, and stroke him, while telling him what a naughty boy he is..
or command that he stroke himself, mocking him, while letting him know how severe his spanking will be..
Oh fuck me yes!
now, he can be made to feel even more submissive, almost like a cow being milked, if you have him bending over a chair on all fours






pardon-my-hardon:  “Why can’t I be like the rest of the farm girls and milk the cows?”
of course, be in charge but aim as you please
Wifey does it one more time !
because enjoying his cum is your PREROGATIVE, even though he has to stand their with his hands by his side, with no movement
She does it again !


most of these gifs come from the following website http://galvygalvy.tumblr.com/archive

milk away aggressively
and
enjoy the bliss
Yeah. I’d like to.
For spanking photos, see almost any other of my posts...