Cindy spanked

CLARIFICATION:  This is NOT a picture of us. No pictures of Cindy or myself appear in my blog.

While on the cruise vacation, Cindy was spanked once. Cindy's spankings are never long in nature, and almost always with the bare hand, over the knee on a bare bottom.


Cindy  has to agree that her behavior warrants a spanking, and I have to agree that the incident is closed and forgotten when the spanking has ended.

The forgetting part is much easier now as we are getting older, as i have no recollection of why the spanking occurred, while I am writing this.

Cindy's bottom reddens extremely quickly, and if she were sitting in a chair, it is sometimes a light shade of red simply by sitting. Cindy is in no way overweight. If she crosses her legs, you can see the red mark where one leg crossed on top of the other, for a few seconds or more when she uncrosses her legs.

This session, like sessions when I am spanked, was followed by mutually fulfilling sex.

Just as a reminder, we frequently have sex where no spanking is involved, but having sex after being spanked is fabulous also.

PS: i seem remiss in not posting about spankings, so I will start dong that more frequently.

Spanked by wife

Some readers are only involved in disciplinary spankings, and that is exactly how we began. I had to convince Cindy to spank me, and used many of the ideas from the to talk Cindy into trying.

We still use disciplinary spankings, but we also do spankings just for the fun of using spankings as foreplay. I wonder how many couples are similar to us.

Two days ago, we decided on a leisurely afternoon to include sex, and Cindy went and took a long bath. After the bath, we discussed whether she should spank me or not, always worried about my heart being safe.

Soon, I was over her knees on the bed, so my whole body was supported, and Cindy used the  metal studded leather heart paddle. She likes using this instrument, and it is extremely EFFECTIVE.

No warm-up, and no lowering of my panties ensued. No warm-up makes the first spanks very effective, and then the heat just continues to rise.  I found my self squirming and owwing very quickly. This implement is somewhat whippy,as it bends at the end when moving away from my bottom after a spank, and whips forward on contact, Maybe about twenty or so spanks whacked my bottom,before Cindy paused.

A pause, that Cindy used to have me raise my bottom up so that she could lower my panties! She also had me move so that she could put my penis between her thighs, and gave a little squeeze. The pause has me trying to shake off the sting, and an all too sudden a resumption of many fast hard spanks now has my bottom on fire! My feet have joined in the dance, and the devilish tip of the heart shaped paddle is now finding normally unspanked areas between my cheeks. This tip is also having the most whip action imaginable. I have no idea how many spanks occurred, which is one devious way to count and lessen the intensity, as Cindy stated "are you breathing while continuing to spank. I responded yes and no letup was in site.  Finally Cindy stopped, and I just sort of collapsed my body somewhat...Wow,what an effective spanking!

Cindy once again asked about my continuing to breathe and not hold my breath. I am breathing, and unexpectedly a third round of even more spanks descended on my bottom! I really started to lose it, with feet dancing wildly, owwing significantly, and squirming as though I had never been spanked before. This new round seemed to go on forever, which it didn't, but I have no idea how many spanks, or how long. My mind simply was trying to absorb and  understand what was happening. My mind could not even  focus, as it sometimes does, on wondering why I ever asked to be spanked. Time effectively stood still, while the spanks rained down.

Cindy finally stopped, and permitted me to get up. I thanked her for the spanking, and she remarked how I really seemed to react to the spanking. What she did not realize that while concentrating on my breathing, and listening for it, she was continuing to rapidly apply hard spanks to my bottom.

Whatever  people refer to as subspace, I was close to it, if not in it.

The love making afterwards was fabulous, with various positions, oral and penetrative sex, and Cindy having a fabulous screaming orgasm
while I orally pleased her,, followed by cowboy and reverse cowboy bringing me to a fabulous Orgasm

Spanking and sex... what a wonderful combination.

Humor thursdays

Happy Thursday
payback time
just between you and me
thus, we can pretend she is coming upstairs to spank us

so bend over and just say OWWWWW!
Always do a thorough job
Remember, smile and spank often 

More eroticism and pegging

Finding fun things to post is always nice..
so have fun

both of you should be smiling so dress up and have fun
The photos do NOT have to be BDSM
and really, if we accept gay  sex, and WE DO then
maybe there is fun trying this.
We have built  spanking into our lifestyle and love making
vibrators, handcuffs, and more
so make love however the mood agrees for both of you.

Valentine's Day is coming

In my never ending attempt to either help you avoid being spanked, or to encourage being spanked, here are some Valentine reminders.
If you do not want to be spanked, book a romantic restaurant for dinner now, while tables remain available, and book the babysitter also if one is needed. Maybe celebrate with friends at the beach
However, you are reading my blog means you are interested in being spanked.
May  I suggest you visit  and send your loved one an ecard with your wishes.
 simply select post cards on the right hand column
and remember
Now, as the wife who spanks her husband, you could always send him a card also, to start his mind thinking...

Creative Menus

This is a cute little video, or more appropriately titled: how you might like to see the menu when next served by a waitress at a restaurant. It is a version of candid camera!! Oh la la!!

Of course, your wife might not be amused if you yake too long to decide.

and the resulting spanking will hopefully be in private, and not at the rstaurant

Over the knee photos

A little collection of photos to warm your heart, and your bottom!

Specially good for our northern brothers during winter, and may they all be spanked soon
 that one leg between his will keep him inplace

bad back, no problem, keep your upper half on the bed, while I blister your bottom
traditional, keep those hands and feet on the flor or ELSE!!!
 Do enjoy yourself while you are spanking him
let him hold a little for balance, and also reminds him who is doing the spanking, in case he drifts off in space
 admire your handiwork
 and don't let him escape
 that kitchen spoon is awesome to use

unfortunate emails / carpet beater photos

A little problem exists with my blog, which I really cannot correct. I am sometimes sent personal requests for a spanking, from men thinking that the pictures express my services.
Here is one such request: I think the original was Dutch, as it was the best version after trying German.
"My name is Martin and i am 40jr. Like i come to you along for an old-fashioned pak spank evil where it hurts. I am referring to the knee and hand, ruler and mattenkloppen a grasp on my naked buttocks, after they are warmed up. Tomorrow afternoon at 12.30 is possible?   (mattenkloppen means carpet beater)"
I have no problem with publishing this because I do not give the email address of the sender. However, I wish I could make it clearer that I am male, and post this blog for fun, and to encourage a spanking lifestyle
Readers can always click on the links on the side to a few professional dominatrices.