Ode To The Cane

Love it or hate it, the cane is something that causes a reaction before it even touches you. 

Fear. Pleasure. Loathing. Intrigue. 

Thinking about it can twist my stomach into knots. If you'd asked me a few years ago if I'd be willing to experiment with a cane, I would've said hell no! It was a hard limit for me in the beginning. Everything I saw or heard about caning seemed so severe which terrified me. 

And being American, it's not the most common type of implement to really be exposed to anyway. Many spankos have never touched one. My friend Mr. A started to really get into caning last year and after hearing many good things from others who'd tried it, I bit the bullet. It was a really good experience, which I wrote.

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Spanked before luncheon date

As you may know, we have a very friendly couple, who are ever so nice, but talk incessantly. It is our job to try to change the topic, and keep moving the focus so the enjoyment remains, as opposed to being absolutely positively bored to death... and beyond..

Sometimes we succeed, sometimes we fail...

Before going out for lunch, I produced the cane, for Cindy to use on our behalf. (would be even better if she used it on the man and wife, but that's another dream...)

Cindy looked for a second or two, and then agreed.

In a flash, I was bare bottomed, standing partially bent over, leaning on the bed....

We actually have two canes, but one is too whippy and simply wraps significantly causing bruising. One stroke with that confirmed this opinion, and it has been thrown out in the garbage.

The heavier (less whippy) cane was then used, with Cindy delivering many medium intensity strokes on my bottom. By not being completely bent over, more of my bottom is available for spanking, as Cindy complains that bent over their is not enough meat to spank except a small area. (that means I am not a fat ass)

Maybe twenty or so strokes, and many were attention getting as she really got into the swing of things...

When finished, my bottm had a dull area across a large area, and I felt the warmth throughout lunch...

Lunch went quite well, and being a buffet, we could always get up to get another SMALL plate of food, thus allowing a new conversation each time we got back...

Preventive behavior spanking relieved both of our stress about the lunch, and we both had a good time.... Try it, you might like the effects...

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spanked as foreplay

As many readers may know, we sometimes use spanking for disciplinary reasons, but more often than not use spanking as a part of foreplay.

Being retired, sex in the afternoon is really a lot of fun, when we are both refreshed and not in any way tired.

Yesterday had Cindy taking a bath, and then we cuddled and fondled. Cindy after a few minutes, stated she would like me to get her something leather to use to spank me.

I retrieved the leather metal studded heart shaped paddle, and a five finger leather strap.

Cindy sometimes jokingly complains that my erection is going to disappear, and has a little kissing and sucking first, much to our mutual delight.

Cindy then patted her lap, and I took of f my pants and panties that I had put on earlier, knowing we were going to have some fun in the afternoon. . She then proceeded to use the heart shaped paddle with enthusiasm. In addition, to always keep me guessing, she only spanked one cheek for about twenty spanks, before moving to the other cheek. I was getting worried as the effectiveness  was becoming intense... and seeming that it was not going to stop.

You might have guessed, but now the other cheek got the exact same one-sided attention. Makes me wonder if Cindy has looked at my blog lately, specifically a posting about a one cheek spanking.

Fortunately, Cindy then switched to alternating cheeks for the next many spanks. When she stopped, she stated what I nice pink and rosy blush I had on my bottom. I am glad she likes to see both cheeks equally colored.

She then started with gusto using the leather fingered hand strap, and it was stinging with every spank, and certainly getting a reaction from me that Cindy enjoyed. This continued for quite a number of spanks, and I am reasonably certain my feet were dancing, and some bum clenching to unconsciously try to lessen the target.

Having gone a long while without any spanking, except for one a week ago, it has probably been  two months with only one spanking. Your bottom can really soften up, and any spanking is very effective.

ASIDE: the advantage of using two different implements is that they give entirely different feels while being spanked. The leather heart shaped metal studded really thudded in, and the tip did a dance on the far side of my bottom. A day later the marks from the tip were still there.  The finger strap was a very intense sting! Both entirely different than a wooden bath brush...

We then proceeded to make love, and my penis sprang back to life after cowering away during the spanking. We both had absolutely fabulous orgasms, and cuddled afterwards. That evening,w e went out for dinner, and had a great meal as an afterglow for a fabulous afternoon.

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play spanking and real spanking

Well, a couple of days ago (Friday to be exact), we had an afternoon nooner sot o speak. Cindy took a bath, I put on some sexy panties, and soon after the bath we were caressing...  Cindy decided to have a little spanking, so over the knee I went for a hand spanking, that brought a little pink to my bottom. I do not know about you, but hand spankings are now only erotic, as the hand is not as mighty as a bottom that has been spanked many times with other implements.

After the play spanking, more caressing lead to fun kinky stuff  as we made love. Cindy tied my hands behind my back and the orally had exquisite fun for both of us with my cock.

After a while, we moved to the bed, and Cindy tied my hands, one to each night-table, and then brought her crotch over my eager lips and tongue, which lead to a fabulous orgasm for her.
Cindy then moved to engulf my cock with her cunt, and we had an amazing orgasmic ride.....

Later in the day, we were going to go to a movie and dinner with friends. They can be nice, and sometimes very tiresome.... I requested a spanking before ewe left, and bent over bare bottomed for the bath brush.

Cindy did four smacks, and said okay. I reminded her that we were driving to the theater (over 30 minutes each way), then dinner, then a drive home.

Cindy said right, I bent over again, and she used the bath brush extremely effectively. Many spanks to one cheek, then many spanks to the other, and then alternating as I was bouncing on the spot and wishing I had never spoken up about the evening. One spank landing high on almost solely bone stopped the spanking.

My bottom was quite hot for the evening, and maybe the spanking was even more effective because of the sexual energy expended two hours before.;

We happen to be fans of Woody Allen, and this movie "To Rome with Love" is only for people who enjoy Woody Allen films. His Midnight in Paris was excellent.

The evening and dinner was a success , so spanking before going was a definite hit (ouch!!!)

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Happy Spankings on Independence Day

Well, Cindy is getting quite a bit better everyday, and we are getting back to our regular selves.

Making love has recommenced, which is a big step.

I have even asked Cindy for a little spanking, and she readily agreed. This was simply pull your pants down and bare your bottom, and she used a wooden stirrer in the kitchen.

She used it for at least thirty spanks, if not a number more, and both cheeks were significantly reddened. I did not hop on the spot, but my bottom was swaying at times.

The red remained the entire day, and came back the next morning after a shower.

Having been more than a month without a spanking, it felt good, but was also very effective on a bottom that had softened up from lack of spanking.

I know there will be more in the near future.

Aside; analyzing (such a big word) the stat counter statistics, a lot of visitors come via searches, but a majority seem to come directly to the site by typing in the blog name. Welcome to everyone. If you would like to share your opinions or something about your spanking situation or simply spanking desires, please feel free to leave a comment. I love comments. There appears to be 180+ followers, but I doubt I have heard from more than twenty of them.

Have a Happy Holiday, and may you be even more fortunate and have the remainder of the week on vacation, and be spanked at least once!!!!  I do NOT recommend seeing blue bruises, but red stripes on a white bottom is appropriate for the day.

bottoms up

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spanked: weight loss management

I am a slow learner.... and an even slower weight loss person. I had reached a high of 185, and then went down to the startling 183. Since then it has been a half-hearted attempt at weight loss, and I am down to 179 after about three months.

This is really not good, as my physician would like to see me at 170. I officiate a lot in summer, and this has probably been my weight loss technique, besides eating fish at least three times a week.

In addition, due to Cindy's health problems, which we hope have all cleared up and gone away, we have not been eating out or cruising with their sumptuous food...

Thus, weight loss to be effective will once again need some stronger encouragement.
Two days ago,we made the first attempt. Cindy used the wooden imitation machete that we had picked up last year when cruising in the Caribbean.

For those spankers reluctant to travel with spanking implements, this is the ideal implement. Purchase one like this at your first cruise port in the Caribbean. Every island sells it at local markets.

I was bent over at the waist, with my arms supporting me on the bed. This paddle can deliver a good wallop, and I received many. with this implement. I am certain it must make a good indentation on the flesh when it makes contact.

Cindy, with pauses to make certain I was not holding my breathe, must have delivered about 50 spanks. Cindy stated I could get up and look in the mirror, and the traditional grey area was vividly contrasted with the bright red. PS: I could still feel this spanking the day later.

Having the spanking completed, we then made passionate love. We are dabbling in the lightest of bondage, and Cindy put a blindfold on me, then tied with scarves my hands  outstretched, one to each night table ... Another useful role of night tables that manufacturers should advertise :)

 

Cindy caressed, sucked, licked, lightly brushed her breasts over my prick and balls, and over my face. Delicious torment...

She then lowered herself over my face, and I eagerly licked and sucked everything that my mouth could reach.

She had a tremendous orgasm, followed shortly thereafter with her reverse cowboy riding me to a glorious orgasm.

We caressed, after I was untied, and held each other in our arms. We then decided to go to a movie, and Cindy remarked while driving there that I can be remembering my spanking while sitting in the movie. I did, as the cushion seats were not enough for over two hours sitting.

Addendum: We may have to separate some sex and spankings to quick effective spankings for my weight. At the movie we had a good sized popcorn with butter, a rarity for us.  Yesterday, I worked in the yard in the heat, then went to the gym, and then officiated at night.  We then went out to the bar, where I had two pints (not one), fries, and came home and had a Danish pastry. I should have had a full glass of water before going to the bar, to quench the thirst.  Some fruit, instead of fries, and no food when we came home. A quick spanking with the cane or the dominator before going out should do the trick!

 We are both beginning to realize that this is necessary.

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sex and spanking: afternoon delights

Being retired has many rewards, giving more opportunities for TTWD.

Being retired, with a decent pension (very fortunate), leads to many adventures. Travel is one of our great adventures. TTWD is another.

Yesterday, we exchanged glances, and one thing lead to another, and it was off to the bedroom for a romp. After kissing and cuddling, Cindy decided a spanking should be in order.

She went and sat on the spanking chair, and I went and got the hair brush.

Bare bottom, over her knees, she made every spank extremely effective. Each one packed a wallop, without any warm-up having occurred.

The spanks landed on the same two spots almost entirely, and after about twenty slow HARD spanks, my sit spot was on fire.

Permitted to look in the mirror, it was a gray ashen color surrounded by a marginal area of red, on each cheek.

Cindy had by then put the hairbrush aside, and passionate love making occurred, with a fabulous orgasm for each of us.

What a pleasant interlude in the middle of the day. (Something for people to look forward to when they retire, if they keep the love alive!)

Later that night, my bottom had a bright red spot on each cheek, and was sore the rest of the day, and I still feel it the day after.

Happy spankings to everyone

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little spankings

Cindy is perfectly healthy, which is a big relief. Thus, all the little day annoyances are being dealt  with immediately.

The good or the bad of it is I forget what was the problem in the kitchen. Whatever it was, the result was bare your bottom, and about twenty good spanks with the soup stirrer.

While still in the kitchen, an attempt at humoring the situation resulted in more spanks now with a larger wooden cooking utensil. I have no idea what name to call it, and will ask sometime.

These tow little spankings show that spanking is alive and well in our home, and relieving any minor irritations that exist in daily living.

bottoms up

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spanked again..weight not dropping

Well, the weight is not dropping, even though I am trying quite hard. However, men will be men, and a  glass of wine at dinner is usually two glasses. [ I no longer have a cookie or ... after the meal]

One beer after the baseball game with teammates sometimes ends up being two, but no more than two. However a beer glass usually is a pint size variety, so it holds quite a bit. Light beer may be light in calories, but full bodied flavor is better.

I am determined to try to cut down massively on snacking after dinner, and hopefully this will help.

The results:

Cindy had a small freshen up bath, and then called me to the bedroom where she was already sitting on the spanking chair, dressed in sexy  lingerie, and holding the hair brush..,

She requested I get her some sexy shoes to raise her legs , and prior to putting them on her, I kissed and sucked her toes, much to our mutual delight.

The shoes were on, and I was told to lower my pants, and Cindy admired the sexy white panties from Victoria Secret that I was wearing.

I bent over her knees, and expected to be told to lower the panties, but this did NOT happen.
The spanking simply started full force full speed. I am now acutely aware that flimsy panties offer no protection whatsoever, but they do change the feeling of the spanking a bit. Cindy lectured about my weight loss stalling, and delivered many many spanks to accentuate the point. She finally stopped, but immediately informed me that she was just resting. OOPS!

After a short pause, and me moving forward, from the first spanking photo to the second position, but not with the leg lock.

The strain on the arms and neck were relieved, and the back of my legs and where they join my butt were even more accessible. Cindy recommenced spanking with equal intensity as before, and just as long while continuing the lecture.

When the spanking finally ended, I thanked her for the spanking, and we proceeded to cuddle, caress, and make love with intense passion. We both  had fabulous orgasms.

My bottom was still red the next day, and has been sore for three days. I am doing somewhat better in not snacking at night, and limiting the wine intake at dinner. We went to the movies this afternoon, and I took a combination of cherries and grapes to nibble on, and water to drink.

May all your spankings end in making love

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spanking and weight

My weight has started oving downward again, as I cut down on alcohol over-indulgence. Also gardening, working out with heavier weights at the gym, running longer on the treadmill with a faster (slightly) speed, cutting down on late night snacks, eating more fuit, and drinking water more often. One key idea is having a large glass of water before we go out to the bar (when we go about once a week), after a officiating duty.What use to be two pints to quench the thirst is now one. Still holding out for real beer over light beer.

I am approximately 5' 10.25", and weighing 178 pounds. Wish I was weighed in kilos, the weight would seem so much less.

 

I asked to be spanked, as a reward/discipline to continue losing weight. Cindy agreed.

The spanking was OTK, obviously on a bare bottom save for that one time in flimsy panties, and Cindy did an excellent job with the Vermont Country bath brush,. (Long since been removed from their website... I thought it was a big seller).

Cindy remarked how well my feet were dancing, and spanked home the point that I have to stay with the program, or get a much more severe spanking, or worse yet, no spankings whatsoever. Now that is a threat for a spanko to take VERY SERIOUSLY!

I have not been posting my spankings in daily sequence, but that have been quite a few in a very short space of days. I have some other posts built up, and want to air them also, specifically strap-on sex that we will try..

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bigger spankings

Cindy was annoyed, to put it mildly, yesterday, so we seem to be in a spate of spankings era. I had been at the gym earlier in the day, and had to cover my bottom, as when I looked in the mirror, I saw two red circular areas, one on each cheek, the place that many times is spanked grey.

That afternoon, Cindy revealed why she was upset, but was about to go out in ten minutes. I stated it only takes a couple of minutes to spank me, so she told me to go to the bedroom, and she followed right behind.

I stopped at the spanking chair,  as she went into the bathroom to retrieve the hairbrush.

Bare bottom, over her knees, and the airbrush danced a quick tune on my bottom. However, she did not apply it as hard as she usually does, and my feet did NOT start dancing, nor was I oohing.

 The spanking stopped, and I thanked her for the spanking. Moments later her friend was in the driveway and at the door. Had she already been their and returned??? Who knows. With the air conditioning on, can my spankings be heard from our doorway???? Only time will tell.

Later that day, when Cindy came home, I apologized again, and stated I will try better. I added that the spanking had been light, as my feet were not dancing. She had probably seen the red circles when starting, and had gone easy.

Wanting to make certain everything was okay, I continued with: You can be very effective in little amount of time, if you use the cane. This has not been used in ages. You guessed it.

Bending with my hands on my knees, bare bottom, Cindy applied the  Hollerin' Hollow to my bottom, with quick snappy strokes. Cindy does not use her full strength, to my good fortune, but the strokes were very effective. She then had me stand upright, where a few more were given to the top of my cheeks.

 

I was permitted to look in the mirror, and could see some stripes.

Problems solved: We proceeded to make love, orally starting our engines, and then Cindy using her vibrator  while I was inside her in a spooning position.   A wonderful time was had by both, and then we had a lobster dinner, which is my cooking specialty.

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spanking is never far away

You may not have gathered, but we have been away. I always try to promptly reply to comments, but cannot when out of town. We also had  very severe food poisoning or some sort of very severe 5 hour virus.

 An upside to the dreaded vo.. and di.. and blacking out is that I lost a pound or two..   :)

We are now feeling better, but it has taken a week, and thus I was spanked yesterday.

Bare bottomed, over the knee, with the wooden hairbrush reddening my bottom, and making my feet dance. The reason is unimportant, except for me to remember that it does not happen again.

 It is always astonishing that if you have not been spanked for two weeks, how soft your bottom becomes, in terms of reacting to being spanked. You feel every spank, specially since Cindy was in the mood to make this spanking FELT, and FELT well....

Cindy spanked until her arm tired, and then paused but kept me on her lap... [fortunatley fo rme Cindy had been at the gym earlier, and had done a fitness class with weights, and thus her arms were tired].

I did not actually notice any fatigue in her spanking skills, and specially when she resumed. Another good minute or more of constant hard spanks all in one spot, then moving to another spot, and then randomly everywhere so that I could not anticipate anything...

I was well roasted when Cindy stopped, and then we made passionate love...

Life could not be finer, even if we lived in Carolina.. (do you know that tune..nothing could be finer than to be in Caroliner in the morning.. AL JOLSON)

a little addendum: Cindy used the soup stirrer earlier today when displeased. Short and effective.. so we are really back in the world of spanking..)

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spanking on vacation

 

The cruise was wonderful, and a little spanking to spice up the time.

Cabins are not ideal, but then again, they are reasonably soundproof. I have experimented with turning the television up very loud, and then standing outside the cabin with the door closed. I did Not hear the television.

However, sometimes when in the cabin, you hear people talking as they walk by? I really do not have an explanation for this phenomena.

I brought the bath brush in the suitcase, as planning ahead is always a good idea.

We had a late dining seating,s o the spanking was a fun bare bottom over the knee spanking, with a short hand spanking warm-up. The television was loud, but their are occasional silence spots for part of a second, specially as we had music on. Any movie or sports would be distracting...

Cindy had my feet dancing, and when we stopped we made passionate love.

A SECOND SPANKING DEFERRED:

This was not meant to be in caps, but is probably a good idea.  Cindy was very angry one day when we were out for my behavior, and when we were back on board she stated she was really going to give me a REAL spanking.

No ifs, ands, or buts, I was bare bottomed over her knee and the bath brush was crashing down on my bottom. After about eight spanks with my feet starting to moved, I asked if she might pause for a moment. She did, and I explained that we were gong to St. Martin nude beach the next day, and assuredly my bottom would be a raging red, that would be embarrassing for both of us.

She thought about it, and agreed to defer the spanking. I know some readers will believe she should have continued, but we are rather very private people!

It has not yet occurred while we have been home.I will remind her about it tonight, and tell you the follow-up in the future. Who knows, the bath brush above might be the waem-up, witht he cane to follow on an already roasted bottom.

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