As you may know, we have a very friendly couple, who are ever so nice, but talk incessantly. It is our job to try to change the topic, and keep moving the focus so the enjoyment remains, as opposed to being absolutely positively bored to death... and beyond..
Sometimes we succeed, sometimes we fail...
Before going out for lunch, I produced the cane, for Cindy to use on our behalf. (would be even better if she used it on the man and wife, but that's another dream...)
Cindy looked for a second or two, and then agreed.
In a flash, I was bare bottomed, standing partially bent over, leaning on the bed....
We actually have two canes, but one is too whippy and simply wraps significantly causing bruising. One stroke with that confirmed this opinion, and it has been thrown out in the garbage.
The heavier (less whippy) cane was then used, with Cindy delivering many medium intensity strokes on my bottom. By not being completely bent over, more of my bottom is available for spanking, as Cindy complains that bent over their is not enough meat to spank except a small area. (that means I am not a fat ass)
Maybe twenty or so strokes, and many were attention getting as she really got into the swing of things...
When finished, my bottm had a dull area across a large area, and I felt the warmth throughout lunch...
Lunch went quite well, and being a buffet, we could always get up to get another SMALL plate of food, thus allowing a new conversation each time we got back...
Preventive behavior spanking relieved both of our stress about the lunch, and we both had a good time.... Try it, you might like the effects...