You Are M.I.N.E !

 
“You are mine. Every last inch of you. Mine to do, mine to take, mine to use. Mine. Do you fucking understand me?” “Yes, sir.” “The hair on your head. Mine to play with, mine to pull on, mine to twirl and mine to grip. Mine. Your shoulders. Mine to lean on, mine to grab, mine to grip and mine to push you to your knees. Mine. Your tits are Mine, mine to grab, mine to squeeze, torture, fuck, drink from, Mine. Your neck. Mine to bite, mine to choke. Mine.. to.. Choke. Mine to nuzzle and grab. Mine to wrap my hand around. Mine to mark. To show the world, you are mine. Mine. ...

The Kind Of Man A Submissive Wife Needs

 
Many men would love to have the woman they love submit to their desires. Within a loving domestic discipline marriage the husband and wife have agreed that the wife will submit to discipline when needed. Many couples go into this lifestyle with hope and enthusiasm for their marriage only to be disillusioned after a short period of time. Part of the reason could be that the wife may have found herself unable to trust or respect her husband and/or his decisions. Without trust and respect this lifestyle cannot work. Let's take a look at what it takes for a man to gain the trust and...

Learn How To Deep Throat

 
Most guys never get to experience deep throat. If you can be the person who allows your man to experience it, then you are giving him something that most girls can't. By the end of this article, you will be armed with the knowledge of how to give deep throat to your man without gagging. But before I give you the tips, I just want to tell you that learning how to deep throat your guy takes effort and practice. Just reading these tips and not doing anything will mean that you will make very little progress. But if you put into practice what I'm going to teach you here, then you are ...

Deep throat Made Easy - More Helpful Techniques

 
Here for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on how to deep throat a penis. Position is important; you'll want to in position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position for beginners is with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach along side. You can prop yourself up on your elbows. The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can't stress this enough. An erect penis will slide much easier along ...

"The Brat Sub - Problem or Symptom"?

 
How many times have we heard it? Someone either calling a submissive a brat or a submissive calling him or herself a brat. But what does "bratty sub" really mean and is it necessarily a bad thing? Brat can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. Most people who label themselves as bratty see it as an endearing or positive quality. Most dominants who label a sub bratty see it as a much less endearing quality. Why does one see it as cute and the other as frustrating? And even more importantly, why ARE subs bratty? What? Submissives who think bratty is o...

Discipline Options For Those With Physical Limitations

 
I have compiled a list of disciplinary options for those Heads Of Household who have physical limitations that prevent them from performing a robust spanking but want to fulfill their role. These options require very little effort but will leave a lasting impact. No matter what the physical limitation may be you will see that there are plenty of options to choose from. *Writing Lines* From Learning Domestic Discipline Writing lines is a punishment where the husband (or head of the household) has his wife write a sentence over and over again as a means to helping her remember t...

Nice Guys - How To Please Your Kinky Women


From this site So you're a nice guy. You think that people should be treated with respect and courtesy; you find violence, particularly violence against women, reprehensible; you would never, under any circumstances, raise your hand in anger against someone you love. And now your partner is asking you to tie her up, or call her names, or spank her, or maybe even "rape" her. All this goes against everything you believe. What do you do? For starters, it's not what you think. The first thing to do is to understand, deep down inside, that it's possible to do these things and stil...

Thoroughly Spanked On Bottom And Thighs

 
Thoroughly Spanked On Bottom And Thighs 5-17-12 Probably like you, i read a lot. I scour the internet for information about the domestic discipline lifestyle. In particular, i am very interested in all aspects of how to spank. My HOH has given me the responsibility of doing the research and then emailing it to Him. That evening we then talk about what we have learned or how we feel about what we read. We have found that both parties in this lifestyle are constantly evolving. Today i want to talk about spanking thighs since i haven't run into a post specifically about it yet. I...

Different Types Of Spankings - Instructions

 
Different Types Of Spankings - Instructions 5-5-12 i found this information at this site and am reproducing it here. Thank you R and C! Before we started living the Loving Domestic Discipline lifestyle, I thought that there were only two types of spankings – “punishment” and “erotic.” I have managed to come up with twelve different Domestic Discipline spanking techniques (most of them from the DD website). The first seven are applied without the woman misbehaving and committing an offense, whilst the remain...

How To Spank Your Wife


How To Spank Your Wife 5-26-12 I found this information at this site and thought it a great idea to post it again. Those of us in a domestic discipline lifestyle, especially new to it need all the information we can find. It seems a simple concept but it's more involved. When you discipline your wife, for either misbehavior or maintenance it is best to start slow and warm up her bottom, spanking her with less intensity and not going full force right out of the gate. After a sufficient warm up you will be able to spank her with great intensity and a longer period of time, he...

ULTRA Spanking - More Serious Punishments For Stricter HOH's - Instructional

5-28-12 The first thing to be said is that spanking is a controlled activity. Whether it is for punishment, maintenance, pre-emption or just because you feel like it, the spanking needs to be done in a structured way. Spanking should never be done in haste or anger and without consideration of the effects. Where to spank The bottom was clearly made for spanking. It can take a lot of punishment without injury and presents a glorious sight when it is glowing red and hot. However, other parts of a woman's body provide suitable and satisfying targets. The inner thighs, belly, brea...

The Perfect Couple As Seen Through A Pussy Whipping Video

 
6-13-12 I saw a video a while ago about a couple where the husband was spanking his wife's pussy. While the content was erotic, what struck me about it was the interaction between the two of them. Pussy Whipped While he spanked her in a very intimate place she showed great trust that he wouldn't hurt her, which he didn't. Her trust was well placed. She showed such vulnerability and openness to him while he spanked her. This epitomizes the need for trust first in order for a woman to be open and vulnerable to her mate. They shared open, honest and polite communication with each ...

"The Spanking"


Once the wife has "assumed the position" the spanking will soon follow. I found this information at this site and thought it a great idea to post it again. Those of us in a domestic discipline lifestyle, especially new to it need all the information we can find. It seems a simple concept but it's more involved. When you discipline your wife, for either misbehavior or maintenance it is best to start slow and warm up her bottom, spanking her with less intensity and not going full force right out of the gate. After a sufficient warm up you will be able to spank her with great i...

50 Reasons To Enjoy Spanking

On a light note, here is a list of 50 fun reasons spanking (found here) is great for any relationship. If someone asks, "what's in it for you" you can direct them here. 1. The lovemaking afterward is often sensational 2. Romantic spanking opens lines of communications 3. There’s a community of spankos to provide support and advice 4. Adult spanking is the most common of all kinks 5. It can strengthen your relationship 6. Just picture those beautiful globes over your lap… 7. He is eager for this, really! 8. Compared to childbirth, ...

Why Are People Attracted To Spanking?

 
I found this post written by Michael Masterson. I thought it would be good to re-post it. The original can be found here The first question that most people that are not “into” spanking ask, is why spanking? There are so many reasons that spanking is appealing to consenting adults as a way to spice up their love life. At its very root, I think the simplest answer is that it takes the concept of general dominance and submission, which many couples practice in some form, to the next level. Many couples probably do not believe that they are dominant or submissive in their sexual ...

Legalize Domestic Discipline

 
6-15-12 I was delighted to find this petition about legalizing domestic discipline. It can be found here Legalize Domestic Discipline Petition It has 1,000.040 signatures and it was submitted to The Government. The actual wording of the petition said: Petition statement For those how (who) find it acceptable and right to live a higher standard than most it is put forth; that the spanking of a spouse/partner by the Head of House be legally acceptable in all cases where consent is given in writing and signed by both parties. that no legal action can be taken in regard to spousal..

Example Of A Discipline Spanking - How To


6-13-12 The first objective is to prepare the bum for a long session and a hard caning at the end. This is important and is something I stress at all times - lots and lots of hand spanking with plenty of massage. This tones the bum for the instruments. The hand-spanking went on for several minutes first over her skirt, then this was removed and it was over her knickers and finally on the bare buttocks. For fifteen minutes I spanked hard and soft, fast and slow all the time massaging her buttocks. We then stopped, she removed the rest of her clothes and stood for ten minutes i...

Caning Techniques, Subspace and Care Of The Cane


CANING TECHNIQUE A single cane can deliver an entire symphony of sensation. A snappy blow that is pulled back a bit just before impact will emphasize surface sting. The same sort of blow carried past the moment of impact, with follow-through, will have much more thud and penetration. The greatest intensity is delivered by the outer third or so of the cane's length. This is the portion that leaves marks, in a hard blow. In a light blow, this part of the cane will have a relatively stingy feel. Closer to the top's hand, the cane moves much more slowly, and the sensation will be mo...

Tumblr Update

Regular readers will know that last week I published a post on my tumblr feed, well is is still early days, but I have managed to find a theme I like and I have updated the site as well as adding to my collection of pictures. It goes without saying I will add more content soon, in fact it is rather addictive.


So far I have added all kinds of things that I have found and other stuff I have rebloged. All of them things that interest me. It is amazing how much your tumblr account say's about you and, in the case of an adult feed your sexuality too. I just find it amazing that people are following the feed and have the same interests too, but then again sex is a draw for all of us.

I'm still working on the theme for my tumblr and before I get it right I still I need to learn a little more coding. The standard themes offered by tumblr seem so uninspiring, but thankfully there are a lot of themes out there you can modify to suit your needs.  I would love to see what others that read the blog are upto on tumblr so why not leave a link to your feed in the comment box for us all to follow.