short spankings

Spankings can be an effective stress relief to remove frustration. Cindy has had me bare my bottom for a number of short sharp spanks with a hair brush or a wooden spatula in the kitchen..

They are extremely helpful in defusing small annoyances.

Last night, Cindy was beside herself with stress about our upcoming vacation, and had even made a list of things that must be done before leaving. Many were done extremely quickly, which smoehow added to her anxiety. I offered her a spanking, and   she reluctantly accepted while we were in bed about to go to sleep.

I enjoyed myself tremendously, and slowly gave about 12 sharp spanks, that reddened her bottom quite nicely. I talked about how we have time (bad idea), so adopted the tact of we will work at it tomorrow, and kept a slow spanking going.

When Cindy felt she had enough, she stated I should stop. I did. We cuddled, I offered sexual release, but she chose to rollover and go to sleep.

Today has been much better, and all is well.

Spankings work

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Cindy spanked

We recently got back to spanking, and we both enjoyed it. Cindy had been fretting too much over my health, and letting it stress both of us out. She eventually calms down, but previously she agreed that if she did it again I could spank her for it.

Well, it happened again. When she and I realized and I calmed her down< I reminded her that she has earned a spanking, followed by making love. Cindy tried to talk her way out of it, but I was not persuaded, so off she went to take a quick freshen up bath and I waited comfortably on our bed.

Cindy finished, and came to the bed where we first kissed and cuddled, before I requested she lie over my lap. She reluctantly did  so.

A few spanks, and her bottom was a light pink, followed by some rubbing and caressing by me, a few more spanks, and then some fondling between her legs so as she would stay in place, as I wanted both of us to be enjoying the spanking. We talked a little about her stressing herself out regarding my health, and how bad that was for her and also for me. Spank spank, now harder, making a satisfying noise and ooow from Cindy. She exclaimed that that should be enough, but I coaxed her to accept a few more spanks to remember why she was being spanked.

Her bottom was a nice shade of red when I stopped, and then kissed her bottom for her and my benefit. We then cuddled, caressed, kissed, sucked and licked her to a tremendous orgasm!!!! We both love this position of domination submission, but truly being in love

followed by my entering her for my won fabulous orgasm.

Spanking, if accepted and consensual, solves minor problems, and leads to fabulously enhanced sex.
We recommend it wholeheartedly.

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Cindy spanked

CLARIFICATION:  This is NOT a picture of us. No pictures of Cindy or myself appear in my blog.

While on the cruise vacation, Cindy was spanked once. Cindy's spankings are never long in nature, and almost always with the bare hand, over the knee on a bare bottom.

 

Cindy  has to agree that her behavior warrants a spanking, and I have to agree that the incident is closed and forgotten when the spanking has ended.

The forgetting part is much easier now as we are getting older, as i have no recollection of why the spanking occurred, while I am writing this.

Cindy's bottom reddens extremely quickly, and if she were sitting in a chair, it is sometimes a light shade of red simply by sitting. Cindy is in no way overweight. If she crosses her legs, you can see the red mark where one leg crossed on top of the other, for a few seconds or more when she uncrosses her legs.

This session, like sessions when I am spanked, was followed by mutually fulfilling sex.

Just as a reminder, we frequently have sex where no spanking is involved, but having sex after being spanked is fabulous also.

PS: i seem remiss in not posting about spankings, so I will start dong that more frequently.

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Cindy spanked on vacation

Time to recount number one of three spankings that occurred while we were on a two week cruise.

This one was Cindy being spanked.

When we first started cruising, we were afraid that people in the hallway or adjacent cabins might hear a spanking. We have come to believe that it is unlikely,but possible. If ever you are on a cruise, try having the television on reasonably loudly, and then step outside the cabin with the door closed.

On our most recent cruise, I could NOT hear the television music, when doing this test.The only slight problem might be the slightly short time when a pause occurs between songs, or if the music stops for a second or three as it fades away.

I believe we practice consensual spanking, as I have rarely ever refused a spanking, but health wise I did a couple of times prior to the heart attack.(That is, if my back was really dubious if it would survive a spanking.

Cindy has rarely offered to be spanked for any reason whatsoever, but does enjoy a pat on the bottom, which I must say I do quite often. It is a romantic way of a wee pat and a kiss. We always kiss and cuddle before going to sleep, and I pat her bottom (a few pats) after she rolls over to go to sleep.

The good thing about spankings, is that you tend to forget the reason it was needed, but you do remember that it solved the problem, and everyone was happy. (should I add eventually, or shortly thereafter)

Cindy had clearly let her stress about my health take too strong a turn, and we had a major disagreement. Whatever was done or said, I forget, but I said that I would be solidly spanked if I had done what Cindy had done. Cindy reluctantly agreed that my being spanked would certainly have happened. AHA!!!!!

I stated that she should receive ten spanks with the heart shaped studded paddle, and she objected! "NOT TEN"

I replied, oh, you think it should be more? NO!!!!!!!!!!!

I was quite firm, and Cindy reluctantly, and quietly acquiesced.

Dress up, panties down to the knees, and face down on the bed.

What a beautiful sight that I enjoyed.

I had immediate, immense enjoyment being able to spank her bottom, as was extremely visible for Cindy to see. 

Cindy was less pleased than normal when seeing my raging erection... Stating something to the effect that was not going to happen, and I reminded her that she was about to be spanked, so she should not compound her situation by annoying the spanker.

Maybe a small kiss might even lessen the spanking a little, and Cindy willingly complied, trying to remove any spanking whatsoever.

After a minute or two, it was down to business, and I slowly gave Cindy five spanks on each cheek, with reasonable strength.

She was not thrilled to be spanked, but warmed up greatly with some cuddling, and knowing tht the problem was forgotten.

We then made extremely passionate love, which was I am certain louder than any spanking that might have been heard by adjacent cabins.

Spanking and sex, a wonderful combination.

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Cindy spanked again

Once again, the advantages of getting older is you forget easily any reason fro being upset with your partner a few days ago, if not yesterday.

The day after spanking Cindy, and making love, we had another disagreement. I do not remember why, but when we went back to the room a little while later, Cindy got out the paddle!

Cindy stated she was wrong, and to get over this I must spank her and then it is finished. She would have nothing to do with my wanting to discuss it any further.

She took off her pants, laid down on the bed. had the heart shaped paddle on the bed beside her, and lowered her panties, and waited!

She stated ten spanks like yesterday....

What a wonderful way to end a disagreement. I took a few pictures of her in this position,

but they are for our own viewing pleasure only... (well, more my viewing pleasure anyways). I think Cindy looks beautiful.
Ten slow,

 harder than yesterday spanks,

with some wriggling and owwing,

and then I took another photo showing a partially reddened bottom, with a little of the heart shaped white space showing.

Follow this up with wonderful passionate sex, and Cindy had a screaming orgasm. If the cabin neighbors did not hear the spanking, they may well have heard the orgasm. [ Cindy the next day stated her throat was sore.. and when I asked why????,  she just smiled and stated I must have been loud yesterday.]

What a extra wonderful vacation this cruise was becoming

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Cindy spanked (friday)

Although not nearly as serious a spanking as I receive, Cindy is still spanked at times. You can read more of Cindy's spankings by using the label at the bottom of this post.

The rationale for the spanking was reasonable.

Cindy had been out driving, and she gets a little overwhelmed at times when driving. She then stopped for groceries, and had them all in one bag when she entered the house. I had been working on our finances, and had music playing, such that I did not hear her come into the house.   Tax season has come and gone, so re-arranging our finances is always worthwhile to do.

Cindy berated me for not meeting her at the door, but I explained that I was not in the room where I normally hear the garage open. Cindy berated me for not helping her with the heavy  bag, and I countered that since my heart attack, I am not supposed to lift heavy items, so always distribute things in two  or more bags and make extra trips.

I was a little perturbed, as Cindy somewhat stormed off. I put the groceries away.

A little while later, I was still upset, and went and spoke with Cindy. In the conversation I reminded Cindy that she can spank me at any time, without any reason, but behaving badly to me means she should be  spanked. She didn't immediately object, so I asked her to stand up, and immediately starting undoing her pants, without her objecting, and then taking her panties down.

I asked her to bend over, and gave her two sharp hand spanks, which she reacted with oww, that's too hard. I replied that she is getting ten spanks, and she said no, that is too many, but not moving out of place. I reminded her that her last spanking had been more with the wooden hairbrush, so she acquiesced saying not too hard.

I gave her ten reasonable spanks, slowly, before permitting her to rise. I looked her in the eye, and she very sheepishly stated: thank you for spanking me.

Later, Cindy had slightly reverted to an angry mood, and I quickly repeated the spanking... slowly unbuttoning and lowering her jeans, then her panties, and bending her over, gave her five sharp spanks....

This spanking worked, as all was wonderfully pleasant and loving afterwards.

Consensual Spanking works.

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Cindy Spanked while cruising

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Cindy spanked

We are getting back into spanking, and Cindy had the delightful(????) experience first. Now, this blog states the virtues of consensual, and Cindy is very reluctant to be consensual about being spanked.

Cindy went through at least one of our children's birth without any drugs(epidermal), but complains and negotiates and oowwwws very strongly when being spanked.

So: the scene:

Cindy has many many shoes. Not a problem. We can afford them, and they do not wear out easily if you have quite a lot. WE can afford this, as we are very economical in most things.

Cindy also has many purses, and in our rather small shared closet, she keeps  a large container box of her purses. Again, not a problem... except that it only leaves room for about 12 pairs of shoes on her shoe rack.

 

The problem: Cindy takes off her shoes, and leaves them wherever she is standing, when either changing or getting a different pair of shoes for whatever reason.....

That means that at times their are five or more pair of shoes blocking the walkable parts of our bedroom...

Add to this idea that a friend recently stumbled and broke two bones in her foot.   Do you see where this is leading.

We are aging (which is better than the only other alternative), and a fall in the nighttime when going to the bathroom, or simply being distracted while walking not knowing their is a minefield of danger ahead, needed correcting... add also that I have been asking her to put her shoes away for years....

Yesterday, I called out to her to please come to the bedroom, the way she calls me knowing she is going to spank me. As she entered the room, she spied that I was holding the wooden hairbrush.

I informed her I was going to spank her, and explained the reason why! She first refused, said she would change her habits, and my asking her how long I have requested that change got no reply. She knows that I have been asking for years...

She then adopted the tactic of okay, but not with the hairbrush...  I responded that the hairbrush seems to be persuasive, whereas my hand is soon forgotten...

I went and sat on the spanking chair, and she followed, permitting me to lower her pants, and then her panties, before bending her over my knee gently....

She continued to request not the hairbrush, so I responded that I will first spank her by hand, and then ten with the hairbrush....

I enjoyed myself thoroughly, as I slowly hand spanked, and she owwwed and wriggled her bottom at times...

I then had her count out the spanks for the hairbrush, and delivered ten good spanks in patterns of two at a time. Cindy howled quite a bit.... A goodly part of her bottom was red when I finished, and I permitted her to stand up. We cuddled, and I reminded her she had forgotten to thank me, so maybe another spanking is needed? She immediately thanked me in a low voice... almost as if the thanking is more difficult for her to say than the spanking itself...

As a follow-up, I informed Cindy that if I see shoes again like this, we will call it: ONE, and she will put them away..  the next time will be TWO, and she will put them away.... The next time will be THREE and she will be spanked with more spanks than this time....

Follow-up:
We made love later in the day, and it was AWESOME.... and all the shoes are still away today even though Cindy has changed shoes from when she was out this morning.

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Cindy's little spankings and mine

Cindy has a much more sensitive bottom than I have, so her spankings are effective but shorter...

Whenever I have been spanking Cindy recently, it is because she lets stress bubble up to the surface... but it is something that does not need to be dealt with immediately, and something that if simply put on a list would be dealt with later in the day.....

Today's spanking was regarding changing our need to pay for baggage on an Air Lingus flight almost three  weeks away. I was dealing with my heart medications, making certain I have enough pills, when she decided that his needs to be done ASAP....



After I finished with my heart medications, I explained to her that we could also pay at the airport, while I was baring her bottom while she was positioned over my knee. I thoroughly enjoyed giving her 12 good spanks on her beautiful bottom, although she was not as equally thrilled as me...

Two days ago, we had a similar non urgent matter that was very stressful to Cindy, an a short ten spank spanking on her bottom helped to moderate the situation...



We will be off tomorrow(written on Monday), for a one month vacation, so although I have posts scheduled, I will not be replying to any comments, but look forward to seeing your comments when I return.

Later the same morning, Cindy decided she needed to spank me, so it was bare bottom over the knee with the bath brush... not significantly hard, medium and longer....



We followed up an hour later by making love

Happy trails to you, until we meet again...

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spankings (his and hers)

Being polite, ladies first....

We had a little disagreement a few days ago, where Cindy ranted... and I acquiesced and just listened.

When she had finished, and calmed down considerably, she realized by a few words from me that she was guilty of being way over the top, that if I had spoken like that I would not sit comfortably for a week or more, and that, she was actually wrong.

Cindy REQUESTED that I spank her, and then the matter would be forgotten.... I agreed (never pass-up such a good opportunity), and we walked into the living room, where Cindy lowered her pants, and then I lowered her panties and directed her over my knee.

 I stated ten spanks on her bare bottom with my hand, and that she should count them out loud... She owwwwed with each spank, and after six brisk spanks I paused, as she complained that they were too hard....  I began again and after two spanks she said eight, whereas I replied I had not heard seven, so it could not possibly be eight, and as she disagreed I kept slowly spanking her, saying that she had the bare bottom being spanked, so she might like to say seven soon... which she promptly did.

I then completed the spanks to ten... and I had a wonderful time...

Two days later, Cindy was annoyed at something I did, and it was bare bottomed bent over in the kitchen with the food stirrer doing a long and effective spanking. Cindy has taken to heart that if she is going to spank, she should make certain that it is effective, so she wandered all over my bottom, and the top of the back of my legs, which is an area she seldom spanks, but she did like my reactions to being spanked there.

Spanking solves problems, allows stress to be dissipated, and makes the spankee aware of what is wrong and needs to be changed.

Life is fun, be certain to enjoy it.

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