Consensual spanking day tomorrow August 8

Well, ladies and gentlemen, it is rapidly approaching that annual event where we want to see how many of you can either spank or be spanked by someone all on the same day.

 Talk to your partner,

and then be certain to follow through 

or if alone do it yourself,

and  we will have a poll for you to vote on as to whether you participated in a spanking on the 8th, or you didn't.

Do not be shy.

 If you are normally spanked, ASK your partner to plan to spank you tomorrow.
Sometimes logistics might be needed so the kids are out of the house.

Remember, it only takes a minute or three of fast paced hard spanks on your bottom, or that of your partner's bottom, for an effective spanking to be given OTK.

No preliminaries, no lecture, simply bare that bottom and start smacking it.

Plan on beckoning your partner to you for a reckoning of faults, or simply for the fun of spanking him or her.
Extra points if you spank more than one bottom,

or are spanked by more than one person

on your marks,

get set

start spanking..

 

bottoms up

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Erections: The reality of many F/M spanking relationships

We use spanking as discipline sometimes, but many times for sexual simulation and role play.

I like being able to be submissive, as this is definitely not my normal situation.

When we first started spankings, I would become erect immediately when informed  that I would be spanked.

 

Erections,, even when occurring for a discipline spanking, did not stop the spanking.

Now, many years later, this does not always occur, but usually still does...

When being spanked, the spankings are real, and the erection now fades away....

Cindy sometimes teases me about this before beginning the spanking, stating that it is a shame that your erection  is going to disappear.

 I assure her that it will rapidly return with a little affection.. and it always does...

so enjoy the fact that spanking your husband can lead to fabulous sex...

 and hope his erection remains throughout the spnaking

or can easily be revived

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preventive spanking (behavior)

It might take a little suggestion on my part,but Cindy is willing to follow through on my requests. We were going out to a couple's house for dinner, and although they are wonderful people, they talk a lot more about absolute trivia with great passion.

We have previously solved my staying calm and pleasant, by a spanking before we go to visit, or have them come over to our house. The tried and true method is a good hard spanking, so that I feel it while seated, or even standing.

I suggested the spanking, and then we could also make love.

In relatively no time whatsoever, after a quick freshen up bath / shower for both of us, I was bare bottomed over Cindy's knees! Cindy sits in the middle of the bed, so I am prone and not having the head down, nor supporting my weight with my hands and shoulders.

Cindy retrieved the wooden hair brush herself, so she was definitely eager.

A few hard hand spanks, and then the brush started it's magic. Cindy spanks one cheek for eight or more spanks, then moves to the other cheek to spread the warming pain. This spanking was harder than the last one, and my bottom has been slow in recovering from it, by my way of thinking.

The brush was now moving from cheek to cheek, and higher up then lower down my bottom, as a bit  of a lecture began. Lecturing, Cindy simply kept spanking away, non-stop with how good our friends are, you would never want to hurt their feelings, as my bottom felt the brunt of the discussion.

The brush continued it's magic, as my feet started dancing.

Cindy finally stopped, and we cuddled, kissed, and made passionate love. Cindy and I like her being in the cowboy position, where she can grind my hot bottom into the bed. We are also trying other positions, as experimenting is wonderfully exciting.

My bottom was fire engine red when we were getting changed for dinner, and about five hours later when back at home, my bottom was still red in the main area. The next morning, a blush shade of red was still present.

Oh yes, the dinner went well, but I teased Cindy which if she remembers might get me spanked again. When declining more wine as she said she might be a little tipsy, I teased her not to drink too much or i might have to spank her!!!! I have never said that to anyone before, but it was glossed over with a little laugh, as hte husband had already left the table and was elsewhere.

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