thoughtful reminders

A few pictures that might alert you that you will be spanked soon

You walk into the living room and a bundle of birch rods have been neatly tied together and awaits usage, as does a pillow to make certain your bottom is at the right height for correction...

Maybe you hare been asked to pull the sheets down before bedtime, and the hairbrush that is usually in the bath room is sitting prominently on the night table.

It  could just be the new sign that your partner has put on your bedroom door

 or possibly the new small carpet on your side of the bed

or, sometimes, the message is more immediately understood

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Consensual spanking day tomorrow August 8

Well, ladies and gentlemen, it is rapidly approaching that annual event where we want to see how many of you can either spank or be spanked by someone all on the same day.

 Talk to your partner,

and then be certain to follow through 

or if alone do it yourself,

and  we will have a poll for you to vote on as to whether you participated in a spanking on the 8th, or you didn't.

Do not be shy.

 If you are normally spanked, ASK your partner to plan to spank you tomorrow.
Sometimes logistics might be needed so the kids are out of the house.

Remember, it only takes a minute or three of fast paced hard spanks on your bottom, or that of your partner's bottom, for an effective spanking to be given OTK.

No preliminaries, no lecture, simply bare that bottom and start smacking it.

Plan on beckoning your partner to you for a reckoning of faults, or simply for the fun of spanking him or her.
Extra points if you spank more than one bottom,

or are spanked by more than one person

on your marks,

get set

start spanking..

 

bottoms up

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Consensual Spanking

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baring the bottom

Pictures to entertain your imagination,
Baring the bottom about to be spanked...

or do I mean caned

Whether you are dreaming of being the spanker enjoying the view

or dreaming of being the person about to be spanked

a trip to the proverbial woodshed does get a reaction

enjoy the experience

 

 

and the result

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Erections: The reality of many F/M spanking relationships

We use spanking as discipline sometimes, but many times for sexual simulation and role play.

I like being able to be submissive, as this is definitely not my normal situation.

When we first started spankings, I would become erect immediately when informed  that I would be spanked.

 

Erections,, even when occurring for a discipline spanking, did not stop the spanking.

Now, many years later, this does not always occur, but usually still does...

When being spanked, the spankings are real, and the erection now fades away....

Cindy sometimes teases me about this before beginning the spanking, stating that it is a shame that your erection  is going to disappear.

 I assure her that it will rapidly return with a little affection.. and it always does...

so enjoy the fact that spanking your husband can lead to fabulous sex...

 and hope his erection remains throughout the spnaking

or can easily be revived

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