I found your blogger, consensual spanking, and am enjoying it. I am a happily married guy who has had a lifetime fetish about spanking. It took a while but I finally got my wife interested in spanking me.
I love the pictures of the women looking sternly up from their chair with a paddle in one hand. That alone gets me excited.
Anyway, thanks for all the work you do on the blog. It is appreciated by me. thanks Baxter
I became a spanko first when I was 10 or 11. My parents never spanked me, even though I richly deserved it several times. So I started self spanking with some bread boards and looking in the mirror at my red ass.
Porn came along and I loved looking at female asses
and spanking stories gave me endless woodies.
Got married at 27 and mentioned spanking to my wife and she looked at me like I was an idiot and I gave up on that for a number of years, self spanking when she was away.
Around about age 50 (6 years ago) I discovered Amazon and the wealth of spanking novels and ordered them and had them delivered to my office and then I would sneak them home and into my workshop where I would read them. My wife discovered the books and told me she didn't care if I read them, just have them delivered to our home. So I did and I have a library of about 20 of them and a wish list on Amazon of about 50 of them.
About five years ago, I started asking again about her spanking me and she asked for one of my spanking books. I gave her one by Fiona Locke and she then understood why I was turned on by it and she got very wet reading the book.
She said, well, if you want to be spanked, bare your bottom and bend over the bed and I quickly did. She picked up a paddle, really a board for weaving 2.5 feet long, three inches wide and maybe a quarter inch or less thick, and she whacked me good. Oh my god did it sting, but I maintained position and she whacked me again and again. Wow, it hurt but in a great way. more whacks and she stopped, ,saying my butt was getting real red. I thanked her and she said, no problem, she would do it again.
So as foreplay for sex, she spanks me with her hand, a paddle, that board or her own favorite, one of my used leather belts. I am always bent over a stool or chair or the bed OR I am lying down with my mid section on top of several pillows on the bed and she spanks me hard with any of the implements. Christmas day of 2011, I was lying naked on the bed and she announced that I needed a spanking so I rolled over on top of a pile of pillows and she took that board to my ass and whacked me 75 times. It was a very enjoyable spanking and my ass was red, a very nice red.
Just recently, I have been hand spanking her, up to now she did not want to be spanked, and now she loves it. This past weekend she hand spanked, paddled hard and then took that board to my ass and I got a thorough spanking, even though I know my ass wanted more. Now for about two years, when we are fucking in the missionary position, she has fulfilled a fantasy of mine by taking the leather belt and whipping my bottom good while I am on top screwing her. the pain and pleasure together make a wonderful experience.
I have already texted her from work asking for a spanking when I get home and she has been there ready with the paddle. That is my story. It is only going to get better and I hope to have more red asses.
From another email:
you and Cindy seem around the same age as my wife and I as we have been married 30 years this year. Typically on a Friday afternoon, we text each other and I remind her that she has been remiss in spanking me and she says that will be taken care of during the weekend. so two days and two spankings to look forward to."