However, they make some really valid points to think about, so I have edited and condensed some of the articles, and hopefully the link in each post, and on my sites to visit will be suitable for them. I will also send an email requesting permission, after I have posted twice, so as they can gauge if I have had any effect for their site.
Thomas Roche: Memo to the Pegged:
Now comes the easy part, right? Because if you're a guy, getting pegged by a woman with a strap-on consists of one simple thing, right? You just, you know, bend over.
Right?
Wrong.
1. If you're about to play with a a hot woman with a strap-on for your very first time, learn one simple fact before you ever drop trou: getting pegged is not about "taking" "it" "in" "the" "ass" -- it's about sex, with a woman with a dick (in this case, of the strap-on variety).
observation: do not forget foreplay, love, cuddling, romance, setting the scene, verbal banter... everything that makes for great sex.
2. If she's just an average girl in an average world, and you're just an average guy looking to spread his thighs, and this is the first time the two of you have played with strap-on sex together, then this will be important advice.
Your confidence will encourage her confidence, and you'll both have a hell of lot better time.
What does that mean? It means engaging all her five senses.
look at it..
mix up eye contact,
inspired dirty talk, audible horny panting and visibly ravenous dick-checks and you'll engage her fully.
Coo for it. Holy fucking shit that looks fucking hot, baby."
Touch it and reach for it. touch it like it's part of her, because it is. Or if it's not, then with the right amount of encouragement, maybe soon she'll feel like it is. Treat it like it's a real dick; stroke it, fondle it, caress it, Feel free to touch the rest of her, too -- touch her tits and her ass and her thighs and her belly; kiss her and...
Why You Really (Really!) Need to Suck Her Cock the wearer doesn't feel any pleasure, right? Wrong.
The erotic charge that strap-on wearing females can feel is intensely augmented by ritual.
This may have to do with her dominance, your submission, with her power.
And Now, The Anal Sex
The preceding paragraphs will, hopefully, encourage you to think of the interaction less as a female-on-male buttfuck and more as a male-on-female-with-a-strap-on par-tay.
First, don't be afraid to use your hands to guide her cock into you.
Second -- did we mention lube? 
Last, and most important, pick a position that allows you to control the penetration.
In that case, "doggy style" can be a very good position to give you control -- even if you're not muscular, a guy's thighs tend to be his most powerful muscles.
In that case, if you're in control, have her remain relatively still and push yourself back onto her. You won't be able to see what you're doing, so don't be shy -- use your hands.
A Few Last Words About Shyness
If you're feeling shy about getting up close and personal with that dick, then there's only one thing to do -- get over it. Dive right in and be active, and let her take the lead when and if she feels confident enough to do that.
And if she's the type who wants to pin you down and take you -- well, you'll get that message pretty quick.
But even then, she'll probably enjoy herself more knowing how bad you want it!
