Thus, after a very stressful time of trying to do too many things before family arrives, we finally took a break today... to relieve the STUPID stress...
Only last night did I finally remember that it is my fault that the stress has gotten out of control. For the past five or more years, Cindy and I had an arrangement that Cindy would list everything that had to be done, and then was not able to stress about what needed doing. If she mentioned "this needs to be done" or something similar, I would spank her.
The responsibility for everything being done was mind, in my own sweet time, provided that everything was accomplished before being needed. IF it wasn't, the spanking I would get would be more than any ever given.. I was allowed to delegate things to Cindy, but she was not permitted to fret and worry, and run me ragged.
We have promised to remember this for next year, and I am setting a reminder by copying this posting, and postdating it for December 1, 2014.
Back to SPANKING... Cindy earlier today bared her bottom and bent over for me to spank, and I gave her bottom a couple of hard hand spanks, and said that was enough, but she insisted on more, so a few more were given, and then I kissed her bottom. I also stated that I needed to be strongly spanked to relieve the stress and start relaxing and enjoying Christmas.
Later that day, Cindy obliged, after we had both showered, and I put a pair of panties on.... (ramblings of a retired mind... why, if it is one piece of underwear (lingerie), is it called a pair of panties... plural... when it is only one)
When Cindy stated I could get up, I thanked her for the spanking, and we proceeded to make love both orally and then intercourse. We both had a wonderful time...