Kinky guy only started in October, and has only 12 posts, but they are worth reading.
"Just a kinky guy like anyone else that leads a normal life by day and a kinky one by night. I like to be different and try new things, neither a dominant or a submissive, I can take my pick of which role I take depending on my mood. This gives me the chance to experiment to the full and try anything that takes my fancy and turns me on."
Another on visiting a professional, with a wonderful link to a great site.