Conundrums: here is an example from the real world....
Spanking conundrum:
if the person likes to be spanked, how can a spanking be discipline?
Well, it can't, but in a loving relationship, a spanking can be given, with the explicit understanding that the spanked person has to change whatever behavior has occurred that merited a spanking.
Many of us simply use spanking as a wonderful fetish that helps make for a more fulfilling and wonderful sexual interlude.
Then again, there are other conundrums, like in this art work.
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