It is always nice to have new readers, and specially if they send a  information about their situation. Plus, comments are wonderful,  whenever anyone chooses to write.
so here is what 
Archedone wrote:
I came across your  site about a week ago.  I love it. I've posted a few comments in  different areas and love the comments you get from others.  I also am a  spanked husband, I also wear silk panties ( made for men ) and my  spanking usually leads to sex. I would say I get erotic spanking even  though my bottom is very red and sore after, and usually has a few welts  from the whip she uses.
I don't get much OTK, I'm usually bent over the  spanking bench I made for her or bent over the end of the bed or other  object. 
She loves to spank me in different positions and we have a nice  assortment of implements for her to carry out the spanking.  
We have  the whip I mentioned, a belt, strop, paddle, wooden spoon, rod.  She  also loves to take pictures of my bottom during and after spanking, so  she can show me my well spanked bottom after.