so here is what Archedone wrote:
I came across your site about a week ago. I love it. I've posted a few comments in different areas and love the comments you get from others. I also am a spanked husband, I also wear silk panties ( made for men ) and my spanking usually leads to sex. I would say I get erotic spanking even though my bottom is very red and sore after, and usually has a few welts from the whip she uses.