spanked as foreplay

As many readers may know, we sometimes use spanking for disciplinary reasons, but more often than not use spanking as a part of foreplay.

Being retired, sex in the afternoon is really a lot of fun, when we are both refreshed and not in any way tired.

Yesterday had Cindy taking a bath, and then we cuddled and fondled. Cindy after a few minutes, stated she would like me to get her something leather to use to spank me.

I retrieved the leather metal studded heart shaped paddle, and a five finger leather strap.

Cindy sometimes jokingly complains that my erection is going to disappear, and has a little kissing and sucking first, much to our mutual delight.

Cindy then patted her lap, and I took of f my pants and panties that I had put on earlier, knowing we were going to have some fun in the afternoon. . She then proceeded to use the heart shaped paddle with enthusiasm. In addition, to always keep me guessing, she only spanked one cheek for about twenty spanks, before moving to the other cheek. I was getting worried as the effectiveness  was becoming intense... and seeming that it was not going to stop.

You might have guessed, but now the other cheek got the exact same one-sided attention. Makes me wonder if Cindy has looked at my blog lately, specifically a posting about a one cheek spanking.

Fortunately, Cindy then switched to alternating cheeks for the next many spanks. When she stopped, she stated what I nice pink and rosy blush I had on my bottom. I am glad she likes to see both cheeks equally colored.

She then started with gusto using the leather fingered hand strap, and it was stinging with every spank, and certainly getting a reaction from me that Cindy enjoyed. This continued for quite a number of spanks, and I am reasonably certain my feet were dancing, and some bum clenching to unconsciously try to lessen the target.

Having gone a long while without any spanking, except for one a week ago, it has probably been  two months with only one spanking. Your bottom can really soften up, and any spanking is very effective.

ASIDE: the advantage of using two different implements is that they give entirely different feels while being spanked. The leather heart shaped metal studded really thudded in, and the tip did a dance on the far side of my bottom. A day later the marks from the tip were still there.  The finger strap was a very intense sting! Both entirely different than a wooden bath brush...

We then proceeded to make love, and my penis sprang back to life after cowering away during the spanking. We both had absolutely fabulous orgasms, and cuddled afterwards. That evening,w e went out for dinner, and had a great meal as an afterglow for a fabulous afternoon.

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spanked: weight loss management

I am a slow learner.... and an even slower weight loss person. I had reached a high of 185, and then went down to the startling 183. Since then it has been a half-hearted attempt at weight loss, and I am down to 179 after about three months.

This is really not good, as my physician would like to see me at 170. I officiate a lot in summer, and this has probably been my weight loss technique, besides eating fish at least three times a week.

In addition, due to Cindy's health problems, which we hope have all cleared up and gone away, we have not been eating out or cruising with their sumptuous food...

Thus, weight loss to be effective will once again need some stronger encouragement.
Two days ago,we made the first attempt. Cindy used the wooden imitation machete that we had picked up last year when cruising in the Caribbean.

For those spankers reluctant to travel with spanking implements, this is the ideal implement. Purchase one like this at your first cruise port in the Caribbean. Every island sells it at local markets.

I was bent over at the waist, with my arms supporting me on the bed. This paddle can deliver a good wallop, and I received many. with this implement. I am certain it must make a good indentation on the flesh when it makes contact.

Cindy, with pauses to make certain I was not holding my breathe, must have delivered about 50 spanks. Cindy stated I could get up and look in the mirror, and the traditional grey area was vividly contrasted with the bright red. PS: I could still feel this spanking the day later.

Having the spanking completed, we then made passionate love. We are dabbling in the lightest of bondage, and Cindy put a blindfold on me, then tied with scarves my hands  outstretched, one to each night table ... Another useful role of night tables that manufacturers should advertise :)

 

Cindy caressed, sucked, licked, lightly brushed her breasts over my prick and balls, and over my face. Delicious torment...

She then lowered herself over my face, and I eagerly licked and sucked everything that my mouth could reach.

She had a tremendous orgasm, followed shortly thereafter with her reverse cowboy riding me to a glorious orgasm.

We caressed, after I was untied, and held each other in our arms. We then decided to go to a movie, and Cindy remarked while driving there that I can be remembering my spanking while sitting in the movie. I did, as the cushion seats were not enough for over two hours sitting.

Addendum: We may have to separate some sex and spankings to quick effective spankings for my weight. At the movie we had a good sized popcorn with butter, a rarity for us.  Yesterday, I worked in the yard in the heat, then went to the gym, and then officiated at night.  We then went out to the bar, where I had two pints (not one), fries, and came home and had a Danish pastry. I should have had a full glass of water before going to the bar, to quench the thirst.  Some fruit, instead of fries, and no food when we came home. A quick spanking with the cane or the dominator before going out should do the trick!

 We are both beginning to realize that this is necessary.

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sex and spanking: afternoon delights

Being retired has many rewards, giving more opportunities for TTWD.

Being retired, with a decent pension (very fortunate), leads to many adventures. Travel is one of our great adventures. TTWD is another.

Yesterday, we exchanged glances, and one thing lead to another, and it was off to the bedroom for a romp. After kissing and cuddling, Cindy decided a spanking should be in order.

She went and sat on the spanking chair, and I went and got the hair brush.

Bare bottom, over her knees, she made every spank extremely effective. Each one packed a wallop, without any warm-up having occurred.

The spanks landed on the same two spots almost entirely, and after about twenty slow HARD spanks, my sit spot was on fire.

Permitted to look in the mirror, it was a gray ashen color surrounded by a marginal area of red, on each cheek.

Cindy had by then put the hairbrush aside, and passionate love making occurred, with a fabulous orgasm for each of us.

What a pleasant interlude in the middle of the day. (Something for people to look forward to when they retire, if they keep the love alive!)

Later that night, my bottom had a bright red spot on each cheek, and was sore the rest of the day, and I still feel it the day after.

Happy spankings to everyone

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spanked again..weight not dropping

Well, the weight is not dropping, even though I am trying quite hard. However, men will be men, and a  glass of wine at dinner is usually two glasses. [ I no longer have a cookie or ... after the meal]

One beer after the baseball game with teammates sometimes ends up being two, but no more than two. However a beer glass usually is a pint size variety, so it holds quite a bit. Light beer may be light in calories, but full bodied flavor is better.

I am determined to try to cut down massively on snacking after dinner, and hopefully this will help.

The results:

Cindy had a small freshen up bath, and then called me to the bedroom where she was already sitting on the spanking chair, dressed in sexy  lingerie, and holding the hair brush..,

She requested I get her some sexy shoes to raise her legs , and prior to putting them on her, I kissed and sucked her toes, much to our mutual delight.

The shoes were on, and I was told to lower my pants, and Cindy admired the sexy white panties from Victoria Secret that I was wearing.

I bent over her knees, and expected to be told to lower the panties, but this did NOT happen.
The spanking simply started full force full speed. I am now acutely aware that flimsy panties offer no protection whatsoever, but they do change the feeling of the spanking a bit. Cindy lectured about my weight loss stalling, and delivered many many spanks to accentuate the point. She finally stopped, but immediately informed me that she was just resting. OOPS!

After a short pause, and me moving forward, from the first spanking photo to the second position, but not with the leg lock.

The strain on the arms and neck were relieved, and the back of my legs and where they join my butt were even more accessible. Cindy recommenced spanking with equal intensity as before, and just as long while continuing the lecture.

When the spanking finally ended, I thanked her for the spanking, and we proceeded to cuddle, caress, and make love with intense passion. We both  had fabulous orgasms.

My bottom was still red the next day, and has been sore for three days. I am doing somewhat better in not snacking at night, and limiting the wine intake at dinner. We went to the movies this afternoon, and I took a combination of cherries and grapes to nibble on, and water to drink.

May all your spankings end in making love

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bigger spankings

Cindy was annoyed, to put it mildly, yesterday, so we seem to be in a spate of spankings era. I had been at the gym earlier in the day, and had to cover my bottom, as when I looked in the mirror, I saw two red circular areas, one on each cheek, the place that many times is spanked grey.

That afternoon, Cindy revealed why she was upset, but was about to go out in ten minutes. I stated it only takes a couple of minutes to spank me, so she told me to go to the bedroom, and she followed right behind.

I stopped at the spanking chair,  as she went into the bathroom to retrieve the hairbrush.

Bare bottom, over her knees, and the airbrush danced a quick tune on my bottom. However, she did not apply it as hard as she usually does, and my feet did NOT start dancing, nor was I oohing.

 The spanking stopped, and I thanked her for the spanking. Moments later her friend was in the driveway and at the door. Had she already been their and returned??? Who knows. With the air conditioning on, can my spankings be heard from our doorway???? Only time will tell.

Later that day, when Cindy came home, I apologized again, and stated I will try better. I added that the spanking had been light, as my feet were not dancing. She had probably seen the red circles when starting, and had gone easy.

Wanting to make certain everything was okay, I continued with: You can be very effective in little amount of time, if you use the cane. This has not been used in ages. You guessed it.

Bending with my hands on my knees, bare bottom, Cindy applied the  Hollerin' Hollow to my bottom, with quick snappy strokes. Cindy does not use her full strength, to my good fortune, but the strokes were very effective. She then had me stand upright, where a few more were given to the top of my cheeks.

 

I was permitted to look in the mirror, and could see some stripes.

Problems solved: We proceeded to make love, orally starting our engines, and then Cindy using her vibrator  while I was inside her in a spooning position.   A wonderful time was had by both, and then we had a lobster dinner, which is my cooking specialty.

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spanking is never far away

You may not have gathered, but we have been away. I always try to promptly reply to comments, but cannot when out of town. We also had  very severe food poisoning or some sort of very severe 5 hour virus.

 An upside to the dreaded vo.. and di.. and blacking out is that I lost a pound or two..   :)

We are now feeling better, but it has taken a week, and thus I was spanked yesterday.

Bare bottomed, over the knee, with the wooden hairbrush reddening my bottom, and making my feet dance. The reason is unimportant, except for me to remember that it does not happen again.

 It is always astonishing that if you have not been spanked for two weeks, how soft your bottom becomes, in terms of reacting to being spanked. You feel every spank, specially since Cindy was in the mood to make this spanking FELT, and FELT well....

Cindy spanked until her arm tired, and then paused but kept me on her lap... [fortunatley fo rme Cindy had been at the gym earlier, and had done a fitness class with weights, and thus her arms were tired].

I did not actually notice any fatigue in her spanking skills, and specially when she resumed. Another good minute or more of constant hard spanks all in one spot, then moving to another spot, and then randomly everywhere so that I could not anticipate anything...

I was well roasted when Cindy stopped, and then we made passionate love...

Life could not be finer, even if we lived in Carolina.. (do you know that tune..nothing could be finer than to be in Caroliner in the morning.. AL JOLSON)

a little addendum: Cindy used the soup stirrer earlier today when displeased. Short and effective.. so we are really back in the world of spanking..)

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Spanked and Sex

 

Another fun day at the ranch yesterday (a figure of speech..we do not live on a ranch)..

Cindy had a reason for spanking me... even though I had a good excuse.

We had been at a baseball party for our team, and I greeted the hostess (a teammate) with " Helloooo Sweetie".

Cindy's little lecture yesterday was that she thought I reserved that for her, and our grandchildren. My explanation is my fascination (newly acquired) of watching Dr. Who, which I TOTALLY recommend to everyone. It is available on BBC America.

My explanation is that I love how River Song always greets people I think, however it may only be the Dr. and I will have to look into it.. She says Hellooo Sweetie in such a fun way, that I adopted it.

 

I may have to change it, but you may not know but I am rather reserved, and shy in talking with people (unless drinking wine to loosen the tongue), and this is a friendly greeting that always gets a smile in return from a woman.

Cindy took a quick freshen up, and then sat on the spanking chair as I first kissed and sucked her toes and feet, then put her shoes on to raise her legs to appropriate height.

She requested I get leather implement(s), so I retrieved the metal studded leather heart shaped paddle and the leather strap that has fingers.

Bare bottom, over her knee,with my panties that I had put on shortly before, around my ankles.

Cindy started with the heart shaped, and it was really effective immediately.
 

 

 My feet were dancing and Cindy was enjoying my reaction. She spanked many in one spot, then switched to the other cheek to continue the pattern of all spanks in one spot.

This heart shaped has a tip, and it really found its way into the area between my cheeks when spanking the close cheek, and it wrapped strongly when hitting the far cheek.

Cindy switched to the strap,which stings intensely, and my feet were dancing again.

 The spanking eventually ended, and I thanked Cindy for the spanking.

The love making that ensued was fabulous, as Cindy is becoming more dominant in bed, which allows my submissive side to enjoy itself.

 

Cindy enjoys licking and sucking my cock, and then proceeded to move over my face

 and let me return the loving oral pleasures, which eventually lead to a fabulous shouting orgasm for her. Cindy is mentioning that sometimes her throat is sore from her orgasmic scream.

Cindy then moved reverse cowboy, and my orgasm was fabulous.

Spanking and sex, the two go hand in hand..or do i mean bottom and mouth, or...you know what i mean!

So let me close by saying!

GET SPANKED!!!!

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spanking on vacation

 

The cruise was wonderful, and a little spanking to spice up the time.

Cabins are not ideal, but then again, they are reasonably soundproof. I have experimented with turning the television up very loud, and then standing outside the cabin with the door closed. I did Not hear the television.

However, sometimes when in the cabin, you hear people talking as they walk by? I really do not have an explanation for this phenomena.

I brought the bath brush in the suitcase, as planning ahead is always a good idea.

We had a late dining seating,s o the spanking was a fun bare bottom over the knee spanking, with a short hand spanking warm-up. The television was loud, but their are occasional silence spots for part of a second, specially as we had music on. Any movie or sports would be distracting...

Cindy had my feet dancing, and when we stopped we made passionate love.

A SECOND SPANKING DEFERRED:

This was not meant to be in caps, but is probably a good idea.  Cindy was very angry one day when we were out for my behavior, and when we were back on board she stated she was really going to give me a REAL spanking.

No ifs, ands, or buts, I was bare bottomed over her knee and the bath brush was crashing down on my bottom. After about eight spanks with my feet starting to moved, I asked if she might pause for a moment. She did, and I explained that we were gong to St. Martin nude beach the next day, and assuredly my bottom would be a raging red, that would be embarrassing for both of us.

She thought about it, and agreed to defer the spanking. I know some readers will believe she should have continued, but we are rather very private people!

It has not yet occurred while we have been home.I will remind her about it tonight, and tell you the follow-up in the future. Who knows, the bath brush above might be the waem-up, witht he cane to follow on an already roasted bottom.

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spanked and sex

AHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We saw the doctor on Friday, and basically he said that I should be fine, and that I should be back to normal soon!!! I am in a rehabilitation program, and am, unfortunately for me, one of the youngest, but also about the fittest. 

So, yesterday, we went for a walk (Hike) in a nearby wildlife management area. the hike was up and down short and longer inclines, and a real workout. I felt good, but tired, because I have not really done anything remotely strenuous for 6 weeks.

Later, but before dinner, we decided to make love, and I suggested a little spanking also.  Cindy bathed, and then we cuddled, and I suggested that I could be on my tummy over a pillow, and she could use the wooden hair brush a little.

Cindy agreed, a little reluctantly. However, after a few tentative spanks, she lost any reticence she had, and gave quite strong spanks on the top half of my bottom. Probably 40 or more spanks, some quite significant on a bottom that had softened significantly over the last six weeks.

When Cindy stopped, we cuddled and made slow passionate love,with fabulous orgasm for each eventually.

Nice to be getting back in the role of normal living.

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Spanked by wife

Always like to play with the titles, so that other Google searches might find this blog.

Aside: Well, Cindy is still somewhat reluctant to spank me, as she had given me one of her strongest ever spankings the day before I had a heart attack, followed by fabulous love making.

However, I had not felt well for a number of weeks, starting from hurting my knee while playing baseball. I was on antibiotics, and did NOT even feel like drinking wine or beer while on a two week cruise.I still believe that the injury started the problem. I fell hard scraping a knee running full speed in the infield rounding the bases, and scraping the knee and leg with a lot of dirt and lost skin. The key point is that the City had signs up that the field had been sprayed for weeds that day, and shouldn't be used. however, this does not stop stupid adults. I bathed and cleaned the knee carefully, but three days later the leg before the knee turned blackish, which faded after a week of antibiotics.

However, I now feel strong, except still for the knee, almost three months  later...

BACK TO SPANKING:

 

Cindy first took a freshen up bath, I put on some panties, and waited for Cindy to call me. Cindy was dressed in sexy lingerie, and we caressed and kissed before I crawled over her knees.  Cindy did a few soft spanks with her hand, then lowered my panties, and commenced with the wooden hairbrush.
I must say that she lost any reluctance of spanking me once she started. The spanks were hard, with a little lecture of things i could do to improve and reduce annoyances. The spanks were significant, and numerous, and I started owwing and moving around on her lap.

She graced one cheek for a number of spanks until I started bouncing, then moved to the other cheek to repeat the method, then back to the first cheek.... OWWWWWWWWW.

A bottom that has only been spanked a little in the last week, and none for two months before really feels .every spank. Cindy stopped, and I started to move off her knees,when a hand on the small of my back and the words " I am just resting a little", let me know more was to come, and they did with even greater force, the same level that has been used when spanking me for the last few years.

Clearly, Cindy is willing to spank me when needed from now on.

The love making after the spanking ended was FABULOUS.;Very similar to other recent posts, but always little differences and nuances making the ride spectacular!!!!

If you ever are wondering to try spanking... Go for it...

An afterthought: A reminder of how they thought of the name, and how you spell Google

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preventive spanking (behavior)

It might take a little suggestion on my part,but Cindy is willing to follow through on my requests. We were going out to a couple's house for dinner, and although they are wonderful people, they talk a lot more about absolute trivia with great passion.

We have previously solved my staying calm and pleasant, by a spanking before we go to visit, or have them come over to our house. The tried and true method is a good hard spanking, so that I feel it while seated, or even standing.

I suggested the spanking, and then we could also make love.

In relatively no time whatsoever, after a quick freshen up bath / shower for both of us, I was bare bottomed over Cindy's knees! Cindy sits in the middle of the bed, so I am prone and not having the head down, nor supporting my weight with my hands and shoulders.

Cindy retrieved the wooden hair brush herself, so she was definitely eager.

A few hard hand spanks, and then the brush started it's magic. Cindy spanks one cheek for eight or more spanks, then moves to the other cheek to spread the warming pain. This spanking was harder than the last one, and my bottom has been slow in recovering from it, by my way of thinking.

The brush was now moving from cheek to cheek, and higher up then lower down my bottom, as a bit  of a lecture began. Lecturing, Cindy simply kept spanking away, non-stop with how good our friends are, you would never want to hurt their feelings, as my bottom felt the brunt of the discussion.

The brush continued it's magic, as my feet started dancing.

Cindy finally stopped, and we cuddled, kissed, and made passionate love. Cindy and I like her being in the cowboy position, where she can grind my hot bottom into the bed. We are also trying other positions, as experimenting is wonderfully exciting.

My bottom was fire engine red when we were getting changed for dinner, and about five hours later when back at home, my bottom was still red in the main area. The next morning, a blush shade of red was still present.

Oh yes, the dinner went well, but I teased Cindy which if she remembers might get me spanked again. When declining more wine as she said she might be a little tipsy, I teased her not to drink too much or i might have to spank her!!!! I have never said that to anyone before, but it was glossed over with a little laugh, as hte husband had already left the table and was elsewhere.

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spanked then making love

Last week, we had a little fun, where we involved spanking as foreplay, then making love.

It is a wonderful combination. You should try it sometime.


First, Cindy takes a small quick freshen up bath, putson some lingerie, then calls me to our bedroom. Sometimes I put on panties, and some times not. We cuddle and caress, and kiss and make-out in the old-fashioned idea.

Cindy then states it is time for the spanking, and this time it was the bath brush to catch my attention. Let me tell you that a long handled wooden bath brush definitely does the job of delivering a good spanking.

Cindy takes a place at the top of the bed, and I lie over her knees, Thus, my whole weight is supported by the bed, as we take care not to have my head below my body for any length of time. Not certain if it is dangerous, but I get a little dizzy with these drugs when this happens.

The spanking was a hand warm-up, followed by a merry tune of my owwing and dancing to the rhythm of the bath brush heating up  my bottom. Cindy makes certain that the spanking is effective, and verbally admiring  what a nice shade of bright red my bottom is, when she stops.

I always thank her for spanking me, whether a for fun spanking like this one, or a disciplinary spanking.

We then proceed to cuddling, caressing, kissing, licking... you get the idea, until finally I bring Cindy to orgasm orally, and then we fuck until I orgasm. Various varieties of this theme occurs each time, with varying positions found in Cosmopolitan magazine, Kama Sutra books, etc.   one can always learn something new, so keep experimenting.

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